I have talked to my brother, the other night. Frankly I can't really remember that much, I was like blogging verbally, and too bad there isn't any 'autosave' After I yelled at him and the like, I calmed down and forgot about half of it. LOL.
Anyway, as far as I can remember, I told him that what frustrates me is that it has been a week and still he did not stand up and take the responsibility. By that I mean, he did not went and approach my parents and say sorry. I also told him that he should have controlled his emotions or even think about the consequences. I told him that if there is something behind what he has done, I mean why he really did that, what urge he felt for doing that -- he have to tell everything. However, he said that nobody will listen. "E hindi ka naman nagsasalita e!"
I told him that he does not speak up that he does not even try. "There's no need." Well I guess he is angry, and that anger must be released and I told him that one night we will all sit down and let him do the talk. I told him that during that night it would only be him to do the talking while I try my best to keep my parents quiet.
I also told him that what I notice about our parents is that they misunderstood him at many points for the fact that he does not explain himself. They may have commit a lot of faults here but he to must admit his. He can't completely blame them for not trusting him, he has done a lot of things in the past and have given lots of chances that he did break. My parents have grown to be precautious and it is because of his doings. He must know that.
My family needs to listen to one another.
My parents did a lot of talking.
My brother haven't done anything.
GAAH.
Where do I enter? HAHA. Well my parents, since then does not allow me to listen to their problems. They would shoo me away, specially during my grade school times --- they would shoo me away. They thought I am a kid not to be able to understand HAHA. Ow well, this moment isn't about me, it's about my brother so I can't really tell about myself.
~ "Life is not easy for any of us. But what of that? We must have
perseverance and...
8 years ago
4 comments:
gah i hope everything is ok...
anyway blog hopping. eh, i always wonder how i can get a music player like yours?
at least nagsalita ka na.
possible ngang may mali yung magulang mo pero yung kuya mo, possibleng oversensitive lang siya or baka siya yung type na ayaw pnagssabihan tapos gusto niya parang puro pasarap lang siya. well gnun ung nakikita ko sa kuya ko, haha. possibleng ganun rin kuya mo. kasi dami tao diyan yung ayaw tlga mapagsabihan e. lahat ng kapatid ko ganun eh.
kasi di naman masama magulang mo eh, sa nakikita ko sa mga ginagawa ng kuya mo, parang sumosobra na siya. prang OA na.
i see myself in your bro. srsly. i usually don't speak up, thinking that no one would listen. o: the only difference is that, i control my emotions though. i don't do anything lame like that. i lock myself up in my room and cry.
i do understand your brother. (pero un nga, di ako kumakampi sa kanya, haha.) ang ayoko talaga sa mga parents is reklamo ng reklamo nang hindi inaalam ang nasa isip ng anak.. kung bakit ganito o ganyan ang kinikilos ng anak.. i just notice that.. haha. nakarelate ako sa post mo. apir! :)
shinjita : gave you the link :D
janelle : onga e OA na siya eee bahala na pag di nag react.
problema niya na yun
christel : it's good to have self control ^^ both sides nga may problema heheh
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