Nov 29, 2007

Others

I think I have learned how to treat people -- my aquaintances and new folks to specify.
I noticed that a lot tells me that I am friendly. However, I really can't remove the fact that I am an introvert -- so that's a hindrance. I realized that I'm really NOT friendly. I just talk to people easily when they approach me. Being friendly means TO approach -- not just to BE approachable. Furthermore, if I try hard to talk to people so that they will talk to me, I will not gain anything -- I put all the effort, but they do not want to be my friend or something, it would be a waste of time.

More or less, I'll just keep quiet.
Nothing is wrong with being quiet right? Being quiet is also an expression -- not a sign of indifference. I knew one person, in our choir, he's younger than me and he appears to be an introvert as well. When he got pissed because the older people were 'bullying' him -- he just kept quiet. And you know what those people did? They kept quiet as well. They did not even care to approach him and say sorry, or ask if they were the ones who made him feel frustrated. The problem with them is that they think that EVERYTHING is a joke up to the point wherein they already hurt others. Well fine, if making fun of others could not be helped, at least BE responsible for what you have done.

What I mean is, if they know they are getting far of have gone far, they should KNOW it without others reminding them. And since they are the 'starters' they should also end things -- especially when they frustrate or annoy other people.

I will not try hard to fit in around people. However, if I really feel like opening up, then I would.
Not all people are 'plastics'. I don't know. It just comes to me right away if a person is worth befriending or not -- in my point of view.

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...

uy haha bago nang layout! anyways, nice post.

i think na dapat proud ka maging introvert, karamihan ng introverts may rich inner lives(reflection, private time, so mas naggrow tayo inwardly) while extroverts opposite, so sila rich naman outer lives nila(gimmick, party etc.)

pero sa tingin ko maganda rin mag extend ng patience sa mga bullies, unless kung sumosobra na sila. ngayon naiisip ko na parang ang immature nang makipaglaban o sagutan kasi la naman yon mappuntahan. mga bully kasi mga insecure pero once na sinabi mo mga mali nya or mga pagka insecure niya, ttahimik na yon kasi yon vulnerable spot nila. haha nabasa ko kung saan.

anyway, ung mga maiingay na yan puro plastik naman yan eh. ung mga maiingay na malalaking grupo sa klase puno ng plastikan yun. mga social climbers kasi. mga corrupt na tao.

kaya nga eh, di sila worth kaibiganin, waste lang ng time. makukuha mo sa kanila fun, pero hanggang dun lang, tas makakaexperience ka pa ng kaplastikan. ano nga ba matututunan mo don? pwede ka naman magsaya kasama mga close circle of friends mo.

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Iskoo said...

bakit nga kaya may mga tao na mahilig mang bully or mang-asar, ano naman kaya napapala nila doon? hmmm

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Nelson said...

I also don't tend to approach other people. But I think I'm slowly losing the grasp of it. On bullying, our teacher in Phil. Lit. once said, "Students, do you like to tease someone who's not even paying attention to you?"

Neat layout by the way. These shades, I like.

L y z a said...

sae:: sure. i'll relink you nalang.

janelle:: sa totoo lang, siguro wala akong pakealam kung introvert ako or what. wala naman sa pagka introver or extrovert yung 'totoong' personality ng tao. i mean, kung ginawa nila at ipinakita kung sino sila, edi iyon. hindi na kailangan ng label. basta sila ay sila :D

winky: NP

iskoo:: ano ang napapala nila? goodteim. goodtime na nakakasakit ng iba siguro

nelson:: NICE line.